Is it possible to leave your unhappiness instead of your spouse? A former divorce attorney lays out the hidden benefits of staying together in an age when separation and divorce are common.I didn t sign up for this! I can t do it anymore! I m so done with this! If you ve ever said one of those things out of frustration with your marriage, you re definitely not alone.In this practical and insightful guide, former divorce attorney Toni Nieuwhof shows that even if you feel disconnected or stuck in your troubled marriage and worry about its impact on your kids there is a way forward.Before You Split helps you find what you really want from your marriage and how to move forward by: seeing yourself and your spouse more clearly dealing with unrealistic expectations learning constructive ways to respond to difficult emotions engaging the power of forgiveness increasing your peacemaking skills advancing your journey of personal growthEven when it feels like it s over, it s not too late. Change starts with one step at a time. Before You Split will help you make choices with your eyes wide open.